I Love My Job !

"Choose a job you love, and you will never have to work a day in your life." 
                            -Confucius-

I feel blessed, because what I do is always different; e v e r y d a y. 
My profession is so much fun! If you are ever doubting that I am actually having fun, take a look at these clips. ;)



        Celebrity Hairstylist Hasblady Guzman on "Split Ends: The Big Cut Off" -Style Network-



                       Green Celebrity Hairstylist Hasblady Guzman on "Split Ends" -Style Network-

Confessions From The Chair: 3 Things To Watch Out For

       "I need space."Maybe I should get my own place.

 "I'm depressed."I don't want to bring you down too.
"No,I'm not dieting."The weight is just dropping off.




After talking to women for over 25 years behind the chair, I start to see certain patterns with the same inevitable outcome and reason. I have learned something about men who are ready to leap away from their marriages or families.  This man reminds me a bit of my labrador. I should add that I love my Newton. I don't think men mean to be this way but they become selfish and one track minded, yet they are also very practical and visual-- with very short attention spans. Some times my Newi would run away from home.He was looking for something new to conquer , chasing down a new smell-- looking for some exciting adventure. 

They're not going to break up a home and create 10 million problems to unravel a marriage unless there is some sort of big payoff.                                (My dog, Newton)

So, ladies!...when your lovely man comes home and tells you any of those 3 believable lines, you can be assured that they think they are in love with another woman (or man). It is at this very moment that a woman needs to think with absolute clarity as she preceeds to go deaf, dumb and blind. She will SWEAR up and down to me, her hairdresser, that there's not someone else in the equation.  


I tell you this right here, in 99.9% of these stories, there has only been one man that was an exception to this rule. But actually, he never even moved out or packed anything. And when left home alone he committed suicide because he was in fact, depressed. 
I say, fight for your family. Don't let him walk so easily. Do everything in your power to make it go right. After the ecstacy is gone, 99.9% want to come back home...just like my Newton.

3 Things I

To Really LIVE is to Know Joy and Sorrow

My wedding day (pictured with my brother).

                                   
                  The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood, who strives valiantly, who errs and comes up short again and again, because there is no effort without error or shortcoming, but who knows the great enthusiasms, the great devotions, who spends himself for a worthy cause: who, at the best, knows, in the end, the triumph of high achievement, and who, at the worst, if he fails, at lease he fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who know neither victory nor defeat.

...One year after my divorce.

Far better it is to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs even 
though checkered by failure, than to rank with those timid spirits who neither enjoy nor suffer much because they live in the ray of twilight that knows neither victory nor defeat." 

President Theodore Roosevelt

My dream house where I lived... 

   

...My current residence, small and warm, the boys and I call it home.

"Celebrity stylist Hasblady Guzman, known for her green approach to haircare, opened her third salon at Los Angeles--hip, new, Ameriana At Brand." American Hair Magazine

Americana at Brand Sits Empty.

Thursday, September 17, 2009, by Dakota

Through all the ups and downs I know how fortunate I am, and can truly say-- regardless of how scared I have been; I am happy in my heart, and full of excitement for the future, with this nagging perception that great adventures are yet to come and giving love is my most important job.